This part of my story was written over time. It is raw, and it is real. While some of this might seem current, I am sharing my story as it unfolded so that you might relate and find your own inspiration to move towards healing. I hope to show you areas of struggle and growth. I will continue to add more as I work through my journals and feel led to share. I welcome comments and emails.

Boundaries VS Ultimatums
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Boundaries VS Ultimatums

When I found out I was pregnant with my fourth baby, I felt anger instead of joy. That moment forced me to confront the growing disconnect in my marriage and led me to issue an ultimatum I now understand differently. This reflection explores the difference between ultimatums and boundaries, and what I wish I had known then about responsibility, safety, and choice.

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A Simple Boundary Tool for Recovery
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

A Simple Boundary Tool for Recovery

Healing after betrayal begins with creating safety in your own body. The three boundary circles offer a simple and compassionate way to understand what feels safe, what feels possible, and what is not right for you right now. This framework helps you communicate your needs clearly while giving your nervous system space to heal.

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Avoidance will sabotage your growth & healing.
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Avoidance will sabotage your growth & healing.

After my divorce and a season of survival mode, I finally had room to breathe yet that’s when avoidance quietly crept in. This reflection shares what that season taught me about burnout, spiritual habits, and choosing growth even when it’s uncomfortable.

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Surplus as a Springboard
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Surplus as a Springboard

Healing isn’t about getting it all together, it’s about becoming who God created you to be. Learn how habits, structure, and surplus can launch you into your next season with more peace, energy, and purpose.

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Choosing to Heal When Hope Fades
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Choosing to Heal When Hope Fades

After years of betrayal and heartbreak, I found myself standing at a crossroads longing to heal, but realizing I might have to do it without the person I loved. This post shares the moment I chose to move forward, trust God, and reclaim my future.

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Coming out of Denial
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Coming out of Denial

Denial can feel like safety, but it often keeps us stuck. In this deeply personal post, I share how I began to see the truth I didn’t want to face, and what happened when I finally let go of the life I hoped for to step into the one God had for me.

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God, Plant Us in Soil Where We Can Grow.
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

God, Plant Us in Soil Where We Can Grow.

After a painful season of divorce and spiritual seeking, I took a step of faith to move my family and rebuild our lives in a new place. This is the story of how God led us through grief, through growth, and into a community where we could finally thrive.

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I Matter. {Healing Self-Worth After Betrayal}
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

I Matter. {Healing Self-Worth After Betrayal}

After years of confusion, emotional pain, and unanswered questions, I began confronting the strongholds that shaped my self-worth. This post shares a pivotal conversation, the truth it revealed, and how I started healing from the belief that I wasn’t enough.

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How I Overcame My Fear
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

How I Overcame My Fear

After betrayal and fear shook the foundation of my marriage, I learned to set boundaries, trust God daily, and take one faithful step at a time. This post shares how I overcame fear and found peace through prayer, daily habits, and the courage to persevere.

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Discovery Trauma
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Discovery Trauma

After years of hidden betrayal in my marriage, I began to understand how discovery trauma had shaped my body, mind, and faith. This post shares what it looked like, how it felt, and the daily practices that help me heal.

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Closing the Door on the Past
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Closing the Door on the Past

After months of grieving and uncertainty, I stood at the edge of my past, holding a door open that needed to be closed. This post shares how I found the courage to let go, trust God, and move into the next season of healing.

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Stepping Stones of Faith.
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Stepping Stones of Faith.

I couldn’t see what was next. All I saw was fog and fear—until God revealed one small stone. This post is about how I learned to walk by faith, one step at a time, and trust Him with every unknown.

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Personal Statement From Jen
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Personal Statement From Jen

After years of private struggle and public ministry, I’m sharing my side of the story surrounding the end of my marriage. In this personal update, I reflect on betrayal, addiction, and the journey toward healing, while honoring truth, accountability, and faith in God’s redemptive plan.

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Managing Triggers
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Managing Triggers

Emotional triggers can be overwhelming, especially after betrayal. In this blog post, I share five powerful ways I’ve learned to manage emotional triggers, including journaling, prayer, Scripture, and somatic grounding, so they no longer control my healing journey.

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The Ebb and Flow of Healing
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

The Ebb and Flow of Healing

Healing from betrayal is rarely linear. In this personal reflection, I share how I’ve learned to navigate the emotional ups and downs of trauma recovery through prayer, support, gratitude, and spiritual resilience.

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The Final Step in Divorce: Grief, Relief, and Moving Forward.
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

The Final Step in Divorce: Grief, Relief, and Moving Forward.

The moment the judge finalized my divorce came with unexpected emotions: grief, peace, and even gratitude. In this post, I share what it felt like to cross the finish line of a long healing journey and step into a new chapter with purpose and clarity.

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The Day I Signed My Divorce Papers: A Raw Look at Letting Go
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

The Day I Signed My Divorce Papers: A Raw Look at Letting Go

Establishing a daily routine after betrayal trauma can ease decision fatigue and support emotional healing. Learn five common mistakes to avoid and practical tips to build a rhythm that brings peace, structure, and momentum even in seasons of stress.

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Routine: Why It Matters for Trauma Recovery
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

Routine: Why It Matters for Trauma Recovery

Establishing a daily routine after betrayal trauma can ease decision fatigue and support emotional healing. Learn five common mistakes to avoid and practical tips to build a rhythm that brings peace, structure, and momentum even in seasons of stress.

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The Year of Unraveling
Jennifer Davis Jennifer Davis

The Year of Unraveling

A personal reflection on a year of deep change, navigating single motherhood, stress, and faith while rediscovering identity and stepping into healing.

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